Darkened Lover

"Fuck me hard against a wall
and pound me with your cock
Hold me close give me your all
as my nails scratch down your back."

Yeah, this is the kinda love I desire.  Not one of violence or malice, but one with such a deep acceptance and comprehension that my carnal desires are quenched.

There are not many men who can handle a woman like me.  One who knows her power, her divinity, and her carnal urges to such a mastery, that no other delivery of fucking will do.  I have chosen a few to engage with energetically who will satisfy my energy needs like the true succubus I am, and who will also be open to the true healing transformation this offers.  Both Gods and Demons have tried to please me, and to be honest, it is only when they are combined in the same human vessel is my thirst ever quenched.   Thanks to social media I have found both my niche and my authentic self in delving into the power of the orgasm to propel forward, and to manifest profound desires into my life. 

The only lover that will even match me now is one who has managed to integrate both his light with his shadow; to glow in the dark if you will.  One who will allow me to be sadistic and domineering in a way of only love and respect.  Reading this you are likely perplexed by these statements, and if so, I welcome you to the way of the shadow.  For many months I have been cultivating on how to thrive in the darkness, and revealing hidden strengths and skill overlooked by societal programming.  The two things I have embraced that go against much of history for women is that I fucking love sex (with the right person), and I am empowered enough to get what I want (in sex and in life).  As my soul evolves into a dual chalice of solid and liquid, know that there is a quickening of others who are doing the same.  It is likely that others who have also accepted the duality as a unity have lead me to this place within myself.

The shift in dark love (not cruel love) has been a great one. It has been shown via cruelty, ignorance, taboo, and even non-conventional means.  Yet it is wonderful to see.  2 people, two authentic people who adore one another so unconditionally that no level of vulgarity is seen as wrong.  Often the new age dogma of unconditional love is something only allowed in the light, or lighter grey areas.  But to truly love someone unconditionally you must see the beast, learn to work with it, or allow it to be, and then love it as part of the one who stands before you.  True unconditional love is transformational.  Yet how many can look into their beloveds eyes, see a demon and still love them.  I have, but that is another tale for another time.  For this blog it is about accepting the all of the person.  Their pain, their shame, their weaknesses an their cruelty.  Then via love and acceptance - the two of you are transformed.  And this can only happen when you love the vulgarity of you.

So many misconceptions of good and evil; and sexual prowess, especially in woman is seen as a great evil.  Yet when harnessed with responsibility, it can be a beautiful and world transforming.  for imagine a woman, who loves her body, soul, mind and heart to such a degree that every man she chooses to make love to, in her own authentic self, is also transformed to the level he is ready for.  What if each time they join in loving physical play, he is solidified in his own whole self?  THIS is the power that I, and other women like me possess when ready to do so.

To close this post, I'd like to tilt my hat to the dark one who makes my loins glow at the simple site of his name.  Thank you my love.

~A.S.
( for D)

Radiant Regression

Many have sought the fountain of youth... and many have claimed it's location, or what it is.  I can tell you right now it is 3 things:

• Good health
• Joy
• Great Sex

Now this last one shall be the focus for this blog.  But first... a wee bit of background. 

The fountain of youth is one that many have within their DNA - they don't age, or they age well.  Their spirit is free and they seem to have a glowing radiance to their entire being.  These people, male and female do somethings in common though.  They eat when happy, and are happy with what they eat.  They are well hydrated and practice a form physical expression welcoming to their soul.  They can easily laugh, and enjoy life.  Often they have wonderfully fulfilling sex lives connecting to their mate on a level above that of physical carnage.  It is common for people like this to hear the phrase "what is your secret", "you skin is so radiant", "wow you are sexy for your age". 

Our society is age focused... yet by prosthetics, not by nature.  As many vegans and vegetarians may also have a more youthful appearance, it is not always the case.  Any person who is in joy, love, and acceptance of their life and who they are will have this.  So long as they nourish their body, mind, heart, and soul as one unit.

In my case, the fountain of youth is predominantly hydration and the orgasm.  In the last 3 years I have been researching tantric sex, and sacred unions where by the physical bodies ignite the energy source of sex, and use this to heal themselves or our world.  Yet, it is also a means to send loving energy to ever cell of our body... while alone.  I have an extreme fear of motherhood.  I mean so much so as it would be categorized as a psychological phobia.  Yet in working with my own experience, I want to connect to someone energetically, while pleasing myself physically.  Welcome to the concept of energy sex.  This is not new, and may be coined as astral sex, or etheric union, but what I do with this concept is connect to someone who has consented to be with me at this time, in mind, emotion and spirit.  With the eyes closed the individual connects to their own body.

Now, relating this to turning back time.  The orgasm has regeneration properties.  Women especially have the ability, when in joy and pleasure, to assist in their partners transformation and regeneration.  But men, who connect to their feminine aspect will also have this power with their mate.  As it is the divine feminine who is charged with creation and renewal - giving birth to new cells, and aura.  On a physical level, the skin will reduce fine lines and puffiness related to stress, and hormonal changes.  This glow allows for the body to feel the energy or blood flow, bringing nourishment to the cells - I have witnessed this happen with me within 48 hours of having a good orgasm. 

It is no secret that I plan on stopping me age with every turn, but it is not just to appear desirable (though that is an aspect) it is so that I may live longer, healthier, and happier to accomplish what I have wanted to accomplish.  I used to suffer from chronic back pain due to mild arthritis in my upper spine.  But after being found, again, by someone I have also found that our connection does more for me than just turn me on, it turns my cells back.  As this was confirmed by a platonic friend who has known me for a couple of years, thinking I was 15-20 years younger than my chronological age.

With this blessing, I am naturally defined in the dating community as a cougar, as I do prefer younger men... but not because of youth but energy.  Yet, it is not just the age that draws me to them, but their confidence, energy, personal power and most of all maturity.  Yes I would happily join the ranks of JLo, Madonna and Janet Jackson, and Demi Moore in my ability to attract the younger men... but know, it is not something that should be envied... but copied - emulated.  And I don't mean women dating younger men, but the radiant joy and health and confidence that these women have to be able to do so.

As a woman, I will say that every woman has the power to turn back the clock, and restore their sexual prowess.  All we have to do is make sure we are taken care of, by taking care of ourselves. This may mean that at times we "ride the pony".  I will not disclose the exact age I am in this post, but trust I look like the image on this profile, and yet am much older.

Youth no longer has to be wasted on the young... time we restore it to where it belongs, to the eternal radiant glow of humanity; one person at a time.

~ Written by Arthena Sophia~
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